Wednesday, 2 December 2009

Pacific Madness - winter 2009


Pacific Madness - winter 2009


2/12                     London – KL - Air Malaysia £439 – return 26/02/10

3/12                     KL – Langkawi

3/12 - 05/01        Langkawi (accommodation RM1500 (Renting a house for a 1 month)

06/01                   KL 8.50am - Singapore - Perth (arrives 21.30pm)

10/01                  Perth -  Sydney (arrives 6.05am)

20/01                  Sydney – Fiji (arrives Nadi at 2.30pm)

21/01 to 2/2/10  Fiji (7 day tour of Yasawas Nandi Bay and Horizons + Beach House 2 nights)

02/02                 Fiji – Auckland – Rarotonga (arrives 11.25pm on the 1st Feb)

09/02                Rarotonga – Tahiti

09–14/02         Morea

14-16/02         Tahiti Nui and Tahiti Iti

16/02               Tahiti – Cook Islands

17/02               Cooks – Auckland (arrives 7am on 18th)

18/02               Auckland – Sydney

19/02               Sydney - Singapore

20/02               Singapore - KL

26/02               KL – London



02.12.09 (on the plane still)
The excitement is palpable… I am going on a 3 month adventure and additionally this time it was not all planned, I am going to ad lib now and again. I left with a rough idea but not set on doing exactly what I initially thought.

03.12.09 (Langkawi, Malaysia)
As soon as I arrived I saw Thomas immediately or better he recognized me, then Rebecca, who I thought was El, but never mind it’s a long story… they greeted me like a couchsurfer, which was expected, even after so many emails back and forth... They were dropping someone at the airport and waited for me, lucky from the beginning I could not go wrong.

However there was a slight problem… the place I was supposed to stay, Rumors Guesthouse had no rooms… the one verbally reserved for me had been let by one of the employees and so I waited for Thomas and Rebecca to close the Spa and then Thomas called the lady who had the room in town. Yet again we were faced with another slight delay, the lady had gone to the mainland so no way to get the keys to go and see the room in town.

As resourceful as Thomas is, he let me stay at the other Spa in Kuah. He and Rebecca run Yuan Spa in Langkawi as well but they live in Kuah and therefore easier to pick me up from there and bring me to Pantai Cenang the next morning. The room faced the main avenue so it was noisy for a while but as soon as my head hit the pillow I only had time to formulate the first part of the sentence… ‘with all this noise will I be able to s….zzzzzzz’ I was off till the morning…. It was strange to wake up in a massage bed but surprisingly enough it was quite comfortable.

04.12.09
They picked me up early, we had breakfast at the beach and then had a swim. Lunch hour was spent at the spa and talking away. We went to the beach around 4pm and later had dinner at Maya Restaurant a local Malay Restaurant, very good and very cheap the kind I like. After they closed the Spa we went for a drink at the beach. This is not a place for fancy dresses and high heels, this is beach gear 24 hours, I reckon I could sleep comfortably at the beach… the temperature does not drop that much from the 30 to 33 during the day, down to 24 or 25 degrees at night. It’s just awesome. And yes fan or air con advisable during the night too as it is not only hot but humid… lol… I am loving it !!!!

05.12.09
Another day in paradise loomed and I still did not have a place to stay… the spa was a great alternative but I was slightly worried about the extra cost I seem to have to incur, or worse at not having a place at all. It’s fantastic for the locals to be fully booked every day but I was not finding it funny. Anyway it was the day I was supposed to go back to Rumors to see my room, but alas my room was still busy… I asked him if he knew someone who had a house or room to rent and he remembered a lady, she had a house but not the long availability I needed. Then she remembered Rizal I got his number and called, he said he would look into it and would call the next day with some news. Another night at the spa… oh well I was not going to be upset in paradise.

06.12.09
After breakfast at Red Tomato we hit the beach and then Thomas remembered the room in town and we called. It was available so we went that evening. My goodness … as soon as they left I regretted not saying something. I was keen to be on my own but not with a bathroom outside… I will spare you the details and you will guess how clean or not… it was. Anyway needless to say that the next morning I was ready outside waiting for Thomas and Rebecca well ahead of schedule. We had breakfast again at Red Tomato, which has wifi access and we went to the beach. 

At lunch time Thomas suggested I rented a motorbike… great! I could rent it but could not ride it… so he asked one of his friends if he could show me how to ride. I was glad he was patient… it was a lot of misses in the beginning, bruises on my legs trying to stop…lol…. but after one hour going up and down on the same very empty road I managed to hold the motorbike with lots more control. I was pleased. My legs were killing me (have two nasty bruises to show my efforts). However riding on an empty road is one thing but on main roads I am not so sure therefore I decided against. Thomas and Rebecca joined us for dinner at Mimi’s Seafood Restaurant and after we had another drink at the beach at Babylon… cool place to hang out if you like reggae…

That night I stayed at the Spa again. Ufff…. I was pleased.

07.12.09
Rebecca had an appointment at the hospital and so after they picked me up we went to the main hospital. For those who know me you can guess how I was feeling, I hate the white walls and smells of hospitals. On the way I saw a sign to Tanjung Rhu and told them I would take a taxi there. Oh... I love it there… it’s the most beautiful landscape, calm, no kids, no noise, just my kind of spot.

The taxi came back via Kuah, the capital of the island, and the call came in… Rizal had a house. I could not believe it was 50 ringgits a night (the same as a backpacker rate). It meant I was going to pay a bit more than I was expecting, 3 times more in fact, but it would be ideal for me and the kids when they came.  I was curious to see it immediately so I walked there from the main road in Pantai Cenang. I could not believe it when he was explaining where the house is, right next to the Yoga centre I had been thinking of going to. It also has the most peculiar name… “the wrong place”…. Lol 

I fell in love. I want this house. This says ‘Helena’s place’ all over. If I was alone I would have cried. After 3 days agonizing slightly about where I would end up. I found the most gorgeous place. I should have known that the Universe was busy at work. The house is made of wood, has a balcony front and side, shutters on all windows, no glass on windows, just the shutters, lol, there is a small kitchen with fridge and sink only and a walk in bathroom which I love, and in the bedroom I have a net over my bed. I feel like a princess in her little castle. A very sticky princess… the fan is blowing over me and I cannot stop thinking that I need another shower… lol  (will upload pics to facebook tonite). Ohh not the shower pics… the house ones… lol






The place where I am staying is called Pantai Cenang or Cenang Beach and is the most popular stretch of beach in Langkawi. I have noticed a great difference since I was here last in July 2007. there is a bit more of everything now, more restaurants, more supermarkets, more spas, more internet cafes … The life style is laid back and the food well I am getting used to it. I eat local food, and have tried a few different dishes, Thomas or Rebecca always take care to suggest the ones that are not spicy and I am enjoying Malay cuisine. So far I had fried rice with chicken, (there is also rice with meat or shellfish), noodles soup with chicken, fried vegetables with white rice, grilled fish and rice, all really tasty and cheap. And so you can understand my definition of cheap… I eat for 10 to 13 ringgits depending if I have a fresh juice or a lemon hot drink. That is more or less £2.50… Breakfast is yogurt and muesli with free boiling water so I can drink my own tea… and it costs 8.50 ringgits… I want to move here. LOL

I moved in straight away and we all went to dinner to celebrate. They were tired and so was I of all the walking in the hot sun. I came home and listened to some music.

08.12.09
Today my 2nd day in my lovely house I decided to stay in all day and enjoy the peace and quiet. In the morning I washed my sarongs and took pics of the house then invited Thomas and Rebecca to come over. They had gone in the morning to take some pics at the Yacht Club. They are getting married on the 26th December but apparently here they take photos of the groom and bride beforehand. Anyway they called back and asked if they could take some pictures here, they loved the place as much as I did. So we mucked about with pics and went for lunch at a mobile joint, which is very similar to the hotdog vendor’s quiosks but it sells real home made food. Wonderful!!!!!!



09.12.09
Today I decided to relocate my office to the beach. The beach front is full of guesthouses, cafes and restaurants and island tour quiosks or beach activities like water motorbikes, parasailing, banana boat riding, etc. Then in between these two motels there is a perfect square with wood tables and chairs and so here I am writing to you, checking my students work and delighting myself with the soft sand under my feet, dreading the moment I will go home under this hot sun… I think I need a hat…

I can’t believe how foreigners can stay sunbathing under this intense sun, they will be so red tonight. Walking barefoot has it’s advantages but I think I will have to go to the Fish Spa soon… oh yeh you never heard of it…??? You basically pay to put your feet inside a fish tank, full of little fishes, and they pick all the dead skin of your feet… amazing! I think I will wait for when my children come over… it’s something to be shared and the giggles will be so much healthier multiplied by 3.

I came home under the scorching sun and decided that I definitively need a hat. Ate a yogurt and a banana for lunch, it’s too hot to eat anything else. Fell asleep reading my book, Long Way Down – An African Adventure, which tells the journey of Ewan McGregor and Charley Boorman from Scotland to South Africa on their motorbikes. Great book to read on holiday. Here I am having my own adventure and reading about others. That’s me, adventure is my middle name. At 4pm I went for a yoga lesson at my neighbour’s house, wow… I did a great workout and even tried to do a head stand without the help of a wall. My fellow colleagues from Monte Mariposa would be proud. I felt great! Then off to town for another great meal. I felt like fish again so I went back to Mimi’s and ordered grilled squid, steamed rice and vegetables… yummy. I wish I knew what seasoning they use. While eating this fabulous food I was also the meal for a couple of mosquitoes who would not give up. Talk about food chain…

After dinner checked my emails at an internet café and called my kids, then exhausted returned to my little home through the hole in the wall… lol… oh yes I have not told you yet that there are two accesses to “the wrong place”, one for cars, which is the long way around and a short cut for pedestrians, bicycles and motorbikes which cuts through a field by a hole in the wall. The funniest part of it is that it looks like the hole was demolished just to fit a motorbike through. Funnier even is that on the wall, in the main street, it reads ‘private property trespassers will be prosecuted’ or something like that… (have to take a picture).

10.12.09
Ahhhh…. another day in paradise… I love this ritual of opening my wooden shutters and letting the sun in. I walk barefoot at home, it’s custom everywhere here, even in some shops in town. Shoes stay outside the door. Then I had breakfast in the veranda facing the sun, wow… I can tell you that it’s 8.30 am and it’s already past 25 degrees and the only wind is the one from the fan inside my house. I can barely stay longer than breakfast and I hit the shower. Today I shall go to the beach in the afternoon only. I will catch up on some work, revising my students work is driving me nuts.

I went early to the beach, just after 3.30pm, the sun was still burning, I had my hat this time, so I ended up laying in the water instead of on my sarong. At around 6pm I walked from Cenang beach to the next one – Tengah Beach to have a massage at Rebecca’s Spa. Had a lovely noodle soup for dinner and that was another peaceful and relaxing day in paradise.

11.12.09
I woke up early, and walked under a very welcoming breeze all the way to the beach. Did I tell you that the cockerels here are extremely polite and do not wake us up until close to 8am? Indeed. I know the sun does not rise very early (like everyone in the island) but cockerels are always the first ones aren’t they? Well not here. So it was a bit noisy on the way to the beach today but I am loving it. I love the smells, the noises and especially the silence when there is some. I am feeling more relaxed by the day, now especially having found an office space so special, and with internet access. See pics. 





This place I mentioned earlier at the beach is just behind the AB Hotel which has wi-fi for 5 ringgits for 24h access so today I will stay working on a translation at my new office location. Will eat in a minute, yogurt and muesli, at my favourite Red Tomato and then back to work on a long translation. Ahhh I can get used to this.

Forgot that the Red Tomato closes on Friday. As some of you may know in certain countries with a muslim influence Fridays are like Sundays and so many shops are closed. I opted for the same place I ate breakfast on the first day which I do not recall the name, let’s call it the Yellow Café because the walls of the restaurant behind are yellow. This is a similar space to my office but in a restaurant kind of way… the tables are very similar, a bit more upmarket with mosaic on top. I had French toast and tea, then back to my office until the battery run out.


On the way back the birds and geese and whatever else were quite noisy… and at night the crickets sing in unison by the million. It sounds like a football stadium full of fans shouting. At home I had fruit and yogurt for lunch again. I am not hungry at all in the sun, just feel like drinking the wonderful freshly squeezed juices and eat fruit, or ice cream… hummm… I rested and read a bit more about Ewan’s and Charley’s adventure on Long Way Down and off I went to the office under the 3 o’clock sun protected by my straw hat. Sat at the office but soon the internet went so completely frustrated (lol) I went for a swim and read by the seashore. Sometimes it’s so hot sitting in the sand that I sit in the water reading, it’s just wonderful!

Back in the office I finished marking one of my students work. Uffff… that was hard work. Soon the sun become surrounded by a hazy mist and the light dimmed and all of a sudden I realised the beach was full of local kids and families enjoying the sea and what it has to offer, it’s around this time between 5.30 and 7pm when everyone goes on the banana boat or parasailing.

I walked 100 meters to the place where I had breakfast and feet still in the sand I ordered noodles with chicken and a lime juice, which to you and me is lemonade. Sometimes when they do not speak well English and I say no ice they bring me the lemonade warm but I got used to it. It’s better than with the tons of ice they use. I am happy that here when I say no spice they are considerate and do not put any. I remember in Thailand 2 years ago I would say no spice and as soon as I tasted it I almost chocked on my swollen tongue, well it felt like it… here the condiments they use in the food are great, lots of lemongrass, coriander and tiny onions, which give a delicious flavour to some of their dishes. I have my favourites now, but none beats the Bihun Soup w/chicken I had at the street vendor the other day. WoW… delicious. I can’t believe it when I see tourists at the Italian restaurant, with so much fresh food around, especially fish and seafood, and really amazing contrast of flavours they are really missing out.

12.12.09
The crickets are really loud at night. I am not afraid of walking the 5-10 min back home through the hole in the wall… lol … I still can’t believe they tore down a part of the wall just big enough for the bikes… 



anyway, where was I… walking back home, yeh, I don’t mind it but would have preferred to have internet at home. This island is very safe as far as I am concerned I did not see anything to make me believe the contrary. Everyone says hello, and if you are at the shops they also want to know where you from. I suppose I get a few extra comments when I say I am Portuguese because of the football players we are so well know for, Some remember Figo, others Cristiano Ronaldo… lol… and they all smile, men, women, girls and boys, even the babies. Yesterday I was accessing the net at the entrance of the hotel at night and these kids were playing and this maybe 2y old came and said hello then run away…

Today like yesterday the temperature is slightly lower, maybe just 29 instead of 33, lol… or the difference is the breeze we had yesterday and today. I have all the windows open and the breeze is enough, no need for fan today.

I took it easy and did some more work… yeh you must be thinking work… well in fact I do accept work and have been doing a few jobs, keeps me busy in between swims. At 2pm I was starving and therefore headed for the Red Tomato for an omelette and juice. I ended up having another juice and a coffee while talking to my kids and booking flights to Australia. It’s official I am off to Perth on the 6th January. Then Sydney a few days later. Will keep you posted obviously.

The beach was glorious at 4.30pm and at 7pm it’s still vibrant with sounds and happenings. Parasailing goes up every 20 min and the water motorbikes roar in the distance. I may come back here after Australia, but where I really want to go is Fiji, Tahiti and Cook islands so I will aim for those.

The sun is setting, another majestic sunset. It seems the whole island is at the beach to witness another day gone. It’s wonderful.


13.12.09
Well even God rested on day 7 so I decided not to work today as it is Sunday. So off I went to the beach with a sarong and a book. What a difference from carrying a bag full of things. The sea was particularly clear today, most days it’s a bit cloudy. Maybe the wind brought clearer water. There are quite a large number of small jelly fish in the water and mostly show up dead on the sand… don’t really know why. They look like silicone boobs scattered over the shore. LoL

By 11am I came home for my midday lunch of fruit and a nap… yes I do have a nap here, for those who know me it may be hard to believe but I guess with this type of weather it requires an extra rest.

By 4pm it was time to hit the beach again but it was still too hot so I went for Bihun Soup instead. Bihun soup is just a chicken noodle soup, no chilli for me thanks, but I love the condiments used. I also love it because it only costs 3.50 ringgits… lol

Bottom line if you eat where the locals eat you save a fortune over a week or two or a month. I am not saying the other restaurants are expensive because when you think about it 30 ringgits is only £7.50 but some places you can spend over 150 ringgits on a meal. But the local Malay food is so good it seems a shame to ‘waste’ so much money on foreign owned restaurants when I can contribute to the locals’ riches and eat well also.

14.12.09
I finished my book Long Way Down and yesterday started on My Life so Far - Jane Fonda’s autobiography. It seems a 584 page long fantastic book. She is indeed a remarkable woman, great actress, still remember her in Barbarella and lately in Monster in Law.

I took my laptop to the ‘office’ in the afternoon and managed to get some things done while having a coffee. Then in the evening I taught a lesson online. For those who wonder I teach the DPSI online. That was it for me, walk home through the hole in the wall and off to sleep. When I say that I feel like Alice in Wonderland… I just walk through the hole in the wall into my magical world… my little house in the wrong place, with a view of the rice fields and the buffalos eating way almost on my doorstep.

15.12.09
Another day at the office this time I had the painful task of learning all I could about traveling between pacific islands and the French Polynesia… I will spare you the details or you will think I am rubbing it in and will hate me soon.

I worked at lunch time 12noon till 2pm and had wonderful Malay noodles with seafood and chicken for lunch, then I had a siesta at the office. I had watched so many times people coming to the shade for a read or a sleep that I wanted to see how it felt. It’s just wonderful. Then from 4.30pm till 6.30pm I had the interesting task of maintaining the lovely brown colour I acquired in the first days.

Tomorrow is laptop free day… lol

16.12.09
I can’t believe it it’s been 2 weeks already since I arrived. Well technically it’s tomorrow but it feels like just a few days. Soon, very soon, on Monday in fact, my children arrive and I hope time stands still for them to enjoy this paradise.

Today I walked from my usual place at the beach to the spa where Rebecca works… oh dear I walked at least 2 miles today, hope my legs look good by now with all this exercise. I have yet to attempt another motorbike lesson and so I am doomed to exercise everyday melting under a wonderfully hot sun.

Luckily I had a ride home.

17.12.09

Today was laundry day. I took the towels, bed linen and the rugs to the laundry but they don’t do rugs, only clothes…. They also have internet but the server was down. I decided to walk to the next internet café, 5 min away, holding the 3 rugs, it was full, so I decided to walk back home and get my laptop. I am trying not to take the laptop every day with me but it’s impossible. It seems that it’s easier carrying the extra weight. Anyway I suppose I walked another couple of miles today. I ended up at Red Tomato having a lovely tomato soup for dinner and booking some more flights. It is useful to look around because I managed to get a flight to Fiji for half the price I had seen a few days ago.

So it’s official. On the 6th  January I fly at 8am from KL to Singapore, wait there at the pool (yes my favourite part of the journey this side of the world is stopovers in Singapore, these guys are really ahead of time) until my flight leaves in the afternoon to Perth. I will do my best to cover the main places to see in Perth (Kings Park and its Lottery West Walkway, Freemantle, Cottesloe Beach, etc). Then on the 10th Jan at 10pm ‘I am leaving on a jet plane… I don’t know when I’ll be back again…’ I wish… I will fly to Sydney and arrive bright and early at 6am on the 11th.

The next 10 glorious days I shall spend catching up with my friend Andreia and then on the 20th Jan I found a bargain flight from Sydney to Nadi, Fiji for 123 euros. I could not believe it so it’s mine now. After that not sure yet…. I am having trouble finding some flights in paradise…

18.012.09
Today the day started cloudy, but the temperature does not go down, still on the 27 – 28 degrees, murky, sticky, lovely.

After lunch the wind picked up a bit and a storm just descend on us so loud I cannot hear my thoughts. The black cloud went over my house to the northeast (I think). The earth heat is such that when it rains this white smoke haze floats over the trees. It’s beautiful. The thunder roars above my head now but I cannot see any lightening. It feels like that saying all hell broke loose, it’s so strong and loud that the ground shakes… wow!

I was just reading information I collected from the net yesterday about the Cook Islands, the distance between islands in the French Polynesia and now I am faced with the decision of how long to stay in each place… lol… life can be so cruel sometimes… you see all my other long trips, which some you may know about (some of you may not) where planned from the beginning to the end, with itinerary and places to visit in each place. I did this over a few months before I toured Asia for 40 days, NZ for 45 days, and South America also for 42 days, but this time I did not plan past my one month in Malaysia. So now I realise how long these plans take and why so many people opt for the package holiday thing. But the money I am saving, the places I am seeing and the fantastic experience I am having with the locals could not be put on a ‘normal’ package holiday.

Yesterday on my way to the beach, two little girls were playing outside by their house and as always they ask ‘what’s your name?’, they may not know anything else but all know how to say hello, good morning, where you from, what’s your name… I replied and she held her little hand and I gave her mine, but then to my surprise she took the back of my hand to her forehead in a sign of respect. I was so moved.

Now that the rain has stopped I need to prepare my lesson for today. Well it started again. I am not sure there will be a lesson today. It’s not just the 10 min walk under the rain but my office is outdoors and there is where I taught the other day. It would be impossible to teach at an internet café, they are too loud here.

19.12.09
The sun is trying to come through the clouds… the breeze a bliss…

I reviewed my information on paradise and I am none the wiser. Need to check more flights and convert some prices in NZ and Australian dollars to see if I can do everything I want to do. I do not want to be counting my pennies in paradise… lol

I miss my children, thank God they are arriving in 2 days. I need some distraction now. I don’t want to think about the hole in my wallet when they leave, they have been studying hard and deserve a break, a good healthy break.

Spent most of the afternoon on the internet researching. Hope the sun comes back tomorrow, need to top up my tan… lol

Had a lovely meal at Mimi’s and a lovely pancake with honey at Red Tomato, where I am sending you this…


21.12.09
Yesterday the day remained hot but cloudy and only in the afternoon the sun came out. I worked on my translation (another one) in the morning and after my noon nap went to the internet and for a long walk on the beach.

Today I woke up early had my breakfast and headed for the Red Tomato for coffee and internet while I waited an hour to go to the airport. My flight was slightly delayed and I momentarily panicked, what if… I decided not to, whatever happens, happens. In the end the flight was only delayed for 20 min and I arrived in plenty of time to get the shuttle from the domestic airport to the international airport. Then half an hour into the wait I panicked again, what if immigration do not let them out easily? What if they take longer than 1h to come out and we do not have time to get back to the domestic terminal to get the other flight which I then realised was a close call, as it departed 2h10m after their ETA. Well I became resourceful and asked for the immigration arrival desk telephone number to see if they could tell me where my kids were. As I was about to call my kids came out… ufff, so I hugged my son who rushed in first and rushed them to follow me trying to explain at the same time what my worries were.

We arrived on the dot for last check in and in no time it was departure time. My daughter has a bit of a cold and had an extremely bad headache and a slight nose bleed. She was worried but I reassured her that this happens sometimes, especially when she had a cold and sinusitis. We rushed to the beach but only my son hit the water. We had dinner at the beach and watched the sunset. Albeit tired they were loving every minute.

I did not realize until the evening that I had not hugged my daughter at the airport when she arrived, only my son who rushed in front, and I felt so bad I could not get to sleep. They were both asleep so I couldn’t even talk to them. I finally fell asleep very guilty.

22.12.09
My kids slept in as it would be expected after such a long flight. They had a late breakfast and we went to the beach at 4pm. We walked on the beach to the spa at around 6pm and went to visit Thomas. Rebecca was at the spa in Kuah so after a brief chat Thomas took us to the Tomato restaurant where we had noodles and Zane had nan bread with cheese. He is still refusing to eat Malay food.


25.12.09
Oh my God where have my days gone… lol

The day before yesterday as they woke up late again we went to the AB motel to access the internet for a while and then off to the Red Tomato for some omelettes for the girls and French Toast for Zane, then they stayed on the internet for 2 hours…

In the evening we decided to try out the new pita shawarma place. Well it would have been a great idea but the bread did not resemble Arabic bread, the hummus had too much tahine and they did not have ice. On top of that the bread basket still proudly had its 2RM price tag from the local Billion supermarket.

Yesterday we went to the beach in the morning and in the afternoon, coming home for lunch and a nap, I prefer that. In the afternoon, at 17:30, the kids and I had early dinner at Mimi’s. It is a lovely restaurant and we all ate a plate of rice. Mine was with chicken and vegetables, Iman’s was with Rose beef (I think they mean Rosbeef) and Zane’s was an omelette with rice inside. Finally Zane had eaten Malay food. We took the laptop yet again to go on the internet. We need to have an internet free day.

On our way back home we saw a scorpion crossing the road. It looked rather small but we were all scared that it may decide to just turn back and ran at us. And that was the highlight of the day.

26.12.09
Finally we had a laptop free day. We still woke up late but managed to go to the beach and then to the kids hearts content Rebecca’s friends called us to meet them at the red tomato, which meant French toast and pancake with nutela.

Today I decided to introduce the kids to some coconut water and so I dragged each coconut weighing at least 2kg to the beach where they were laying in the shade reading… needless to say we were not able to drink the whole 1litre of coconut water.

At 3pm we came home to shower and change clothes for the wedding. We were invited to Thomas and Rebecca’s wedding party. We were thrilled with the prospect of witnessing a true Malay wedding... kool.

Well the wedding was very nice. It seemed very catholic for some reason. The priest read some passages and there was some singing. I liked the short ceremony. Then we ate, a buffet style dinner. Rebecca’s sister Jessica Liu is apparently very famous and so everyone wanted a picture with her. She is an actress and lives in Singapore now. She acts on a series at 5pm every day called ‘Kinship’. Zane took a picture with her, maybe one day it is worth a million, lol.

Apparently theirs was a very simplified wedding ceremony. However, I have been told, the wedding could not be over before the tea ceremony. The grandparents sit on two chairs and the bride and groom serve them tea, with each cup of tea the grandmother and grandfather give the newly weds a gift in a red envelope or sometimes a piece of jewellery for the bride.

A short while later it was time for a similar ceremony, this time for the kids. The bride and groom sat in the same chairs and the kids came to wish them happiness and whatever else they wished. For each wish the kids receive a little envelope with some money. My children, even though not so children anymore, joined in and managed to earn 2 ringgits each in the process. It was lovely to see and mingle with their traditions. And I am sure the kids will remember this.

Rebecca’s uncle, and owner of the spa she works at, sat on our table together with the couple who owns the sailing boat. I had seen the lady at the beach numerous times distributing leaflets. I knew she could not remember our faces and for obvious reasons I introduced myself as ‘Hello again, I am sure you don’t recognise me with my clothes on, do you?’ she laughed and after I reminded her, she then recognised me. After all she had tried to give me leaflets 3 times in the last 2 days.

29.12.09
Today we had a different day. We spent most of the day at the waterfall. Thomas and Rebecca brought their nieces with them. After climbing more than 367 steps to get to the waterfall we were presented with a few pools where we could bathe. The kids loved sliding from one pool to the next and everyone, grown ups included, seemed to have a ball. I slid on the very little entrances to each pool but did not venture onto any of the faster ones. The stones were slippery where wet and I did not want to fall. The last two pools had incredible views of the beach well down below and of the cable car climbing far up the mountain. We had lunch (Bihun soup for me and rice and chicken for the kids) at around 3pm and then we returned to our normal beach in Pantai Cenang.

Yesterday the kids went on a banana boat ride and loved it, and Zane had a double adventure as he also went parasailing. Wow! I am very proud of him, trying all the most adventurous things. I didn’t go but would love to try it. I want to have a go at the jetski as well… we’ll see. We talked about it later at dinner and decided that maybe me and Iman should go parasailing on the last day of the year, as the last adventurous thing we did, or alternatively do it on the 1st day of the year, as in the first adventure of the year. It would be fun.

31.12.09
Yesterday I suppose the highlight of the day was the Fish Spa. It was weird, good weird obviously. Basically I paid to put my feet inside a fish tank full of fish that eat dead flesh off my feet. The first tank is full of bigger fish and the second tank has little fish that actually kiss your aching feet better. The sensations are very different from one to the other. Once used to the tickling feeling it is actually a rather nice feeling. The small fish at times almost feel like very faint electrical shocks, it was a funny discovery. My son loved it, my daughter chickened out. LOL 

Today we rented a car and went to Kuah and in the afternoon we went to Tanjung Rhu, my favourite beach on the north shores of the island. We were very lucky that the tide was out so we were able to walk on the sand bank almost up to the rocks in front, around 1km from the beach. The evening approached and we came to the spa to wish Thomas and Rebecca happy new year and were treated to an half an hour foot massage… ahh just what we needed after so much climbing the other day. We rushed home to change clothes and went to eat at the beach. After we walked to the yellow café where we waited for the fireworks. The kids loved seeing all the drunkards being silly, dancing and falling off. One in particular was completely hammered and took his shoes and socks off and threw them in the bonfire… lol as that wasn’t enough he threw his hat too.

The 3 main bars, the Yellow Café, at one end of Pantai Cenang, the Babylon Lounge at the other and one in the middle which I cannot recall the name, all had a display of fireworks and I reckon that the yellow café was the best one.

01.01.10
Wow… we are in 2010 …  for someone who, as a teenager, though the year 2000 (and the end of the world, lol) was too farfetched and would never arrive being in 2010 makes even more surreal. I wonder which year will be my last? What a weird thought to have on the first day of these decade…

Today we did absolutely nothing, we returned the car and meandered the streets like homeless cats. After 2 weeks of the same-same we were starting to have a tummy full of splashing with the jelly fish…

We thought of booking the snorkelling tour but wanted to wait to see if Rebecca and Thomas wanted to come with their nieces.

03.01.10
Yesterday we went to the Bird Paradise Wildlife Park, we fed the birds, monkeys, porcupines, parakeets, ostriches, donkeys and last but not least hundreds of rabbits. My kids loved it. Rebecca’s nieces were back at school so weren’t able to come.

Today we went snorkelling at Pulau Pasir. The van picked us up from the main road         and took us to the jetty in Kuah where we boarded a small catamaran which took us south to a small island called Pulau Pasir where we were left to snorkel until lunch. We were served a kind of pre packed lunch, about which I shall not get into details, and then we were able to snorkel for another hour until 3.15pm. there was a great number of fish and  we were able to see 3 black tip reef sharks. The journey back was much faster than the way there. I think the boat run into a small engine problem on the way there and was only going at half the speed. The way back was much more comfortable.

We decided to splash on dinner and so we rushed home to shower and headed for the Red Tomato. The kids were delighted.


04.01.10
On our last full day in Langkawi we decided to stay at the beach all day but albeit that decision we came home to charge the computer at lunch time and returned to the beach to catch some more sun and see if you could brown a little bit further. We had dinner with Thomas and Rebecca at a Chinese restaurant and enjoyed experimenting once more with Asian flavours.

06.01.10
Yesterday we flew to KL early in the morning. We took the shuttle from the domestic terminal (LCC) to the international terminal (KLIA), left our luggage in a locker and headed to the city centre by bus. Travelling by public transport is very easy and reasonably cheap. Each bus ride costs 9 ringgits to cover a distance of 52km, a bargain I say.

We arrived at the Sentral Station, where all the train correspondences meet and took the KL Rapid to the KLCC shopping centre, which is the mall under the famous Petronas Towers, unfortunately the view point was closed so we did not go up. We then took a taxi to Bukit Bintang to yet another mall, this time an electronic paradise mall, 5 floors of shops only dedicated to electronic gadgets. The kids could not believe their eyes, literally every shop sells the same stuff, mobile phones, computers, consoles, they looked for games but could not find any. I forgot where they sold them and so we decided to walk to yet another shopping mall this time Star Hill, a fantastically decorated mall full of expensive retail shops. Due to my insistence to walk there we did not have time to go to the market to look for more souvenirs but we took the monorail back to the Sentral Station and got some there. We boarded the bus again to KLIA and got there just in time for the kids to check in.

Once they were safely off I looked for a comfortable bench and went on the net. Then ate something and look for another bench in a quieter corner where I slept like a baby for almost 5h. My flight was not due until the morning, and I did not want to go back to KL just to sleep. I woke up without the alarm at 5am but decided it was still too early so went back to sleep.

At 7am I got my suitcase from the locker and did my check in. However as soon as I arrived in Singapore I was disappointed with the fact that I could not go to the pool and wait in style for my next flight like I normally do. In my haste bargain hunting I managed to find a great bargain flight to Perth but failed to realise that Tiger Airways flies from the Budget Terminal, which does not have an internal connection with the 3 main terminals and therefore no connection with T1 where the pool is… damn.

Decided not to be upset I took advantage of the skytrain between terminals and went to check out again the newest terminal 3, recently open in Jan 2008. I had seen it briefly on my last trip to Australia but with nothing better to do for 4 hours I decided to check it out again. Then went to Terminal 2 to eat something, go on the net and reply to some more emails and eventually to take the bus to the budget terminal.

So that was my short adventure stay in Singapore and now I am on my way to my 3rd OZ adventure this time starting in Perth. I am couchsurfing finally and look forward to check out the sights tomorrow.


Perth


07.01.10
I woke up bright and early full of energy to see this Americanised city. On my way from the airport last night it seemed I had landed in a small state in America or even Canada. The freeways are large and the roads ample. Last night I did not see much more than the roads from the airport to Woodbridge where I stayed with Tara, my host. Woodbridge is located in Swan Valley a region well known for its wineries.

What I did notice however was the resemblance to American state cities where square looking shops laden wide avenues and cute bungalows decorate the small streets in between.

So I took off on the Transperth, a great, clean and frequent train that runs from Midland (one stop from Woodbridge) to Perth and then continues to Freemantle, 19km south of Perth. What more could I want? For AUD$3.60 I went straight from home to the place I wanted to see Freemantle. 

I had the impression that Freemantle was a seaside town but it is in fact a busy port town, with only a very small dirty with algae beach. However I soon discovered its charms. I got out of the station straight into the most lovely looking café to have my long awaited breakfast. As soon as I started walking I was charmed by the old buildings, which look virtually unchanged since the mid-19th century. I walked along Market street and then onto the esplanade, the green garden just before the harbour. I peaked at the bathers bay but was disappointed by the amount of algae so walked a few meters back and decided to go into the Maritime Museum and Shipwreck Galleries. Those who know me are well aware tht I do not do many museums but somehow this one called me in and took me straight to an exhibition of unknown shipwrecks, one of which could have been un unnamed Portuguese ship that sailed from Lisbon to Macau and was lost at sea at Point Cloates in 1816… I knew it. Or it could have been the Mercury, a British ship lost at sea in 1834.

The majority of the exhibition showed a number of Dutch shipwrecks. Apparently the Dutch wanted to take advantage of the knowledge of the Portuguese travelling the oceans in the 15th century and wanted to do the same. While the Portuguese were contented with trading spices in India and Asia, the Dutch wanted to find further a field lands but failed to understand the straits and to map the region properly resulting in hitting reefs and islands on unknown paths and spending most the 16th century sinking their lovely ships.

I loved the description in the captain’s logs upon encountering the aborigines…  ‘savage people in savage lands…’

Anyway I really enjoyed Freemantle and I reckon it would be a great place should there was a better and bigger beach.

I went back to the centre of Perth and boarded the Blue CAT, a free bus which circles some of the streets downtown. Then back where I started from I boarded the Red CAT which goes west and east of Perth.

Having had enough of buses I boarded the train back home.

08.01.10
Yet again I woke up at 7am, it just felt so natural to wake up early, whereas in Langkawi I struggle sometimes to wake up before 9am, maybe due to the heat and humidity not really sure. Anyway I walked to the local shop and got 2 bananas and a yogurt to eat with my own muesli for breakfast. I felt really silly having to declare my own muesli and flax seeds at the airport on arrival but if you fail to declare it and they consider it a forbidden article then you are fined $1000. Anyway they let me go through and therefore I still have muesli and seeds and now also nuts to last me a week or so… lol

Today I went to Scarborough Beach. I took the train to Perth changed to the Perth Underground, which runs over ground (? Beats me) to Glendalough, where I changed to the bus that goes to the beach.
Scarborough is a kid’s playground and surfers’ paradise. The waves are great (the swell is awesome, as for the rip… not so sure… lol) and the beach is long but with no shade. I stayed a couple of hours and returned to town at lunch time. This time I went on the Yellow CAT and then I spend some time on the internet sorting out emails and meetings.

09.01.10
Another great day downunder. I have been told that in winter is can be as cold as 13 or 15 degrees… they are kidding me right?

Anyway I decided to venture to Cottesloe Beach today as I learnt that at the weekends there is a free shuttle bus from the station to the beach. It’s only a 15 min walk but I learned not to walk long distances in the sun. It’s quite tiring. Now this is a beach! It just reminds me of Caparica with a mixture of Guincho in Portugal. There were waves but not too high and fierce and the water was actually much warmer, so much more that I went in shortly just to refresh myself.




Just before noon I decided to go to one of the cafes to eat something and escape the midday sun. I opted for Beaches a lovely corner café with tables outside in the grass. I ordered, yes you guesses my favourite Bircher Muesli with fruit and yogurt and a freshly squeezed juice. I looked around for a table and a guy just kind of accepted my muted invitation and I said thank you even before I sat down. John is a local and he owns an alternative energy company, he is married to Madge and they have 3 kids. Madge stays home with the kids (now all over 20) and we shared opinions on disciplining kids and the importance of boundaries and having present parents. Again I think that people really meet for a reason and we should be very open to the messages. The more we talked the more things we had in common, yoga, kite surfing, does everyone do the same around here? Anyway it was a very lively and healthy conversation.  John talked about yoga and body pump. I just couldn’t believe it. I am all the way around the world talking about my favourite things with people I just met but who share the same interests, wow!


From the moment I arrived I had the feeling that I was missing on something by not driving here in Perth and I guess I was right. The train and buses are a great means of transport, clean, reliable, frequent and not overcrowded but they only go certain places.



John drove around Swan Lake, which is huge, and there is no other way to go there but by car. I sat on the grass and watched him set up. I asked some questions and he explained some of the mechanics of setting up and also of how to hold the kite in position so as not to loose control of it. I loved it. They make it look so easy but I held it to help him launch it and it was much heavier than the one I played with in England. This one has 4 strings (not 2 like the one I used) and pulls you with it if you are not careful. John was wearing a wetsuit and the proper hook which is more like an harness, so that in reality it is not only your arms that steer the kite but your whole body plays a part in keeping you in situ, or not should you choose to make those jumps guys so much like to do to impress the girls… ahahahah.

If I had not shared a table with John I would have never seen the huge and beautiful Swan Lake. I would have not learnt a secret to stay together over 30 years. Never loose sight of what bought you together and what you achieved together.

On my way back from the beach I finally managed to walk up to Kings Park… wow what a view of the city, river and freeways. Really awesome. I walked up to the view points and then across the suspension bridge and back as it was getting late for my meting online at 7pm.

I have to admit that Perth grew on me as the days unfolded and today really confirmed that I needed a car to explore other places of interest, like Helena Valley and Helena River. There is no transport to go there and a taxi was out of the question. Then there is all the beaches south of Freemantle which the trains do not cover well.

I guess that if I have time and I find a bargain flight coming back this way I might stop over another 3 days and rent a car. Also Swan Valley, where Tara lives, is supposed to be a beautiful wine region, so a drive around would provide excellent views I am sure. Well we shall see what the future holds…

Tomorrow is my last day and I shall go back to Cottesloe again. So far my favourite beach. Then maybe a stroll at the market in Freemantle after lunch in one of its many quaint cafes... we’ll see.


10.01.10
Well Cottleslow was exhibiting a radiant sun and the little strip of coffees and shops were buzzing with activity. I waited for a table at Beaches. Not even 10.30am and it was already as busy as it would get.


Sydney

11.01.10
Sydney received me as I remember, sunny, busy and vibrant with colour. My friend couldn’t pick me up so after ascertaining where she lived exactly - Cremorne Point, I headed for the train to Circular Quay to take a ferry to Mosman Bay. Her stop is the first one on that route which meant I got to her house in half an hour. I love this city. Cremorne Point seemed lovely as I arrived, it sits across the river and overlooks Sydney harbour, opera house and bridge. What a fantastic urban landscape.

My friend’s house is a good 5min walk up the hill, dragging a suitcase it took over 10min… The house is very similar to the one I remember from the last time, when she lived in the posh neighbourhood of Vaucluse. I like the spacious houses in Australia, and I think the ones in Perth are even bigger.

Today we went to the free local pool. Most neighbourhoods have this type of salted water pool for the local residents. It is normally located by the water hedge near a green area shaded by old trees. My friend swam, I watched, lol. We came home for a little while and decided to head for Bondi Beach but as we got there it was quite windy so we came back home again.


12.01.10
Today was a girly day and we pampered ourselves at the hairdresser. A very expensive affair but a must as my hair line looked like a rotten banana.

14.01.10
Yesterday the weather was a bit cloudy and so we stayed home till noon, then went to the city and came back to get ready to hit town. As we were leaving a lovely tropical rain just fell on us… lol so much for staying pretty. We managed to get to the ferry and the city all right. We ate tapas for dinner and then went to the Victoria Room, a bar decorated in a lovely Victorian style. We were in luck as a wonderful jazz quartet was playing. After a cocktail my friend suggested to go to the Ivy, well I have no idea where to go and had no requests either so we tried it but as it was Wednesday the bar was quite empty so we went home.

My friend remembered a place which she thought I would like. Newtown, it’s a long road of shops that remind me of Brighton for its individuality, retro looks and weirdness. The food is really inexpensive here and you can find restaurants with cuisines from all over the world. We opted for a Nepalese restaurant and as we were not very hungry we only had soup. Wow! I am addicted to soups I think. We had a fruit cocktail in a small bar and watched the passers by. It is indeed a very quaint neighbourhood that would require another day and evening there.

16.01.10
Yesterday we woke up to another greyish day and although warm we cannot go to the beach so I research my flights and my friend sorted some of her things out. We left the house it was past 2pm. We headed for Paddington where she had to run some errands and then to the city centre.

Today the sun decided to come out to play early in the morning and so my friend and I
went to Balmoral beach but it was noon and after a couple of swims I sat in the shade. After we went to Cockatoo island but got disappointed. Cockatoo island opened to the public in 2007 to show where convicts were imprisoned and where draftsmen and the management worked and where some lived. So much for an island infested by cockatoos… however I did not see any cockatoos and so we cut our visit short.


In the evening we went to see Toumani Diabate, an African musician from Mali, at the Domain, a fairly large green where free concerts are organised frequently. Their music was vibrant and I danced to the drums. Their music can be explained as a fusion of traditional sounds and innovative beats, mixing instruments like guitars, drums and the Kora, a west African instrument played with 4 fingers only. It was very interesting. The rain threatened to ruin the show but did not dare.

The festival showcases lots of artists and it’s hard to pick which venue to go because there are so many. Most are paid and some are quite expensive and I did not budget for the arts unfortunately. There was one in particular we wanted to see at the Sydney Opera House – Ballet de Rua. A brazilian group of dancers performing a dance that incorporates capoeira movements, ballet and contemporary steps. I shall look out for them in England.

19.01.10
Today is my last day in Sydney and for the first time we woke up early and I mean early 5am to be precise, to take my friend’s husband to the airport. We went directly to Sharks Bay but the sun had not arrived at the beach. We went to have breakfast in Cogee another beach 20 min out of Sydney. We came back home for lunch and then went out again to try unsuccessfully to find Mosman Bay. We decided to go to Balmoral Beach, which was awesome at the end of the day. The sun was warm but not too hot, just perfect.



FIJI


20.01.10

Bula (Hello) my friends…

I just arrived in Fiji and been to Nadi town to get some water and shampoo to take on my trip to the islands tomorrow. There was no one in the dorm when I arrived but 2 of the beds had clothes on, so I hoped it would be a quiet dorm. The hostel/resort I am staying is kind of big and has a restaurant, a pool, cinema and games room. There are girls only and mixed dorms and also single and double rooms. I am staying in a girls only dorm. At dinner time I met with Sarah from Brisbane, a German guy, and a Fiji/kiwi guy (guess what) called Zain. I couldn’t believe when he introduced himself. How cool to meet someone with my son’s name.

Tomorrow I am off to the islands. I booked the ‘ultimate lei’ a 7day/6 night ‘Awesome Adventures Fiji’ Tour, which covers 4 islands in the Yasawas. If you want to check it out see: www.awesomefiji.com.




27.01.10
Wow! Where do I start…


I know Fiji is not only the Yasawa or Mamanuca islands, I also know that what I saw is basically the touristic Fiji, in fact I should say the backpackers Fiji. But who cares what sort of accommodation you stay in, what matters is that I am here and enjoying it. 

So where did I left you…. on the 21st …

I was collected from my accommodation and taken to the harbour where I boarded the Awesome Adventures yellow catamaran, called the Yasawa Flyer, headed for the Yasawas. The route is pretty much the same both ways (North / South) and it’s a kind of a shuttle boat that takes people to the islands and at the same time collects them and transfers them to other islands, as long as they are travelling north or south. Some tours start from the islands closer to the mainland and others from the furthest islands in the north. The boat trip takes around 5 hours but as it stops at most islands it is quite entertaining.


21st jan – after 5hours on the boat I was more than ready to start my adventure. My first island was Coral View in Taweva island, the last island on the Yasawas. The resort (as they all are called) was rather nice. I stayed in a mixed dorm with 16 bunk beds. I guess I was the older in the room but then met a german lady who was 36 and another asian guy who looked more or less my age so I did not feel so old. The accommodation was rather nice and I completely changed my mind about backpacker places. The couples, girls and boys staying in the dorm were very well behaved and clean, the bathrooms and showers too and I was pleasantly surprised. The beach was awesome, clear blue water and a large reef to snorkel. The sand strip was not very big but the large garden with palm trees compensated for the lack of beach. There was another beach we could go to if we walked 10 min across the small hill. Food was good and at 10am everyday there were free activities.





22nd in the morning after breakfast we had a coconut demo, which basically meant we were shown how to open a coconut, drink the water and after crack it open to eat the dry white insides of the coconut. I ate loads as I remembered really loving it when I was in the Maldives. In the afternoon I join the trip to the blue lagoon where the film ‘Blue Lagoon’ (with Brooke Shields) was filmed. I can’t start to describe how blue the water of the beach is… it’s just fantastic. Snorkelling was fabulous, saw numerous fish of all sizes and colours and the reefs here are still alive which makes the experience even more rewarding. The trip lasted one hour and was really worth it.

23rd today after breakfast we boarded the yellow catamaran headed for Korovu in Naviti island, one of the biggest islands in Fiji. There are several resorts on this island. Korovu was lovely, it has a great family ambiance and the staff was very nice and happy. It had a pool with water as warm as the sea if not even more. It was an authentic bath. Not surprising when it stays in the extremely hot sun all day long. The beach was mainly rocky and murky at places. Korovu stands in the middle of the long stretch of beach with coconut beach resort to one side and white beach resort to the other. Internet access was $17Fj dls an hour, which when compared to the $8 an hour in the city it feels even more expensive. I have to admit that it was great not to have internet everywhere, even though I knew some of you would worry… but I really did not want to be spending my time glued to a screen when I could be in the warm waters of the pacific delighted with the variety of fish. In the afternoon I went snorkelling and in the evening we had burgers ;-(.


I had more bread and meat this week than during the last 6 months… well the boys at my table now really like me because they can always eat my leftovers… lol… After dinner we had entertainment, fire dancers and traditional dancing. In the islands there are only male dancers to all the girls delight. The guys did not seem to enjoy it as much, lol



24th Still in Korovu my little group (3 english girls, Steph, Danny and Emma and 1 german, Astrid as well as Phil) headed for Honeymoon Beach on the other side of the island. I am guessing every island has a beach on the other side… there was one in Coral view as well. After lunch we boarded the catamaran headed south for Kuata our next island. Kuata is located on the next island of Waya. The beach was a bit more promising with shaded places and lovely clear light blue/green water. The dorm we were shown to was a bit of a disappointment from what we had just come back from so I asked if I could upgrade to a Bure (fijian for beach bungalow). 

I got it for an extra $15 and was very pleased to actually have some privacy for a little while. I headed to the water for a snorkel. I was pleasantly surprised with the variety of fish. It was fun seeing the people leaving and arriving at the island. Those coming from the north arrived in the afternoon, those coming from the mainland arrived in the morning. So everyday there were transfers between the islands. It was interesting to meet the same faces on the boat and along the islands. Sometimes we would exchange a few words about the island we had just been to and helped those who were on their way up to the northern islands. Dinner was a bit disappointing for some as they run out of salad and fruit. I wonder what would happen the next 2 days. However being the eternal optimistic I thought the sunset compensated for all the rest. In fact I was spoiled for choice because on one side of the island we could see the sunrise and on the other the sunset. What more could I ask for?



25th another day in paradise… woke up before 7am to take a picture of the sunrise, then off to breakfast only to find a really dry piece of cake and a pink and orange strange piece of cake. Oh well I thought I would look forward to swim with the sharks afterwards. Swimming with the sharks was amazing, very short but so very amazing. We swam around the reef and saw 3 white tip reef sharks, they seemed unaware of us and we were in awe of these creatures. One of the Fijian guys caught a little fish with a spear and then attracted the shark to him, in one motion grabbed the shark with his huge hands and told us all to touch the shark’s skin. Woow!! It was very soft and velvety. I was so proud of myself for not freaking out… it was absolutely Wananavu (Fantastic!). Afterwards when I realised we were only in the water 10 or 15 min I thought that the $25 was a bit of a rip off, oh well… I shall not worry about that. That evening we had yet another burger… I am loosing weight by the day…well a sample of a burger really as it was so little… the entertainment afterwards was very funny. First was coconut race, 4 girls with coconuts hanging from their waist had to motion their hips in order to hit the coconut on the floor and move it forward to the other side of the room, without using their hands. It was hilarious. A girl from Switzerland won. Then it was time for the fire dancers, my first show of fire dancers. Wow! They are really mad. Another fun day in paradise ended and I was looking forward to visit the smallest island in Fiji – South Sea Island.
























  

26th A storm had just start brewing on our way to South Sea in the afternoon and just before we arrived it poured down. It was actually fun because it was so hot it did not matter. We were shown to our dorm and we were all kind of disappointed. Luckily Tiff, a French girl, wanted to swap beds with her friend and I ended up sleeping on the lower bed of a bunk bed. I cannot complain. As I arrived I met 3 Brazilians, Daniel from Salvador da Bahia, Douglas from São Paulo and Camila from a small town near São Paulo. They all live in Brisbane, studying and working. Soon was dinner time and we all forgot about the dorm conditions. The rain stopped and I decided to go for a walk before lunch was announced. It took me literally 12 min but only because I walked very slowly. It is that small, I kid you not. The food was gorgeous and the best we had so far on this tour. After a little dance game/activity to break the ice between everyone a group formed and we decided to buy some drinks to play the drink game, instigated by Tiff. Well it’s a bit hard to describe the game but basically we had each a sign and needed to show our sign first followed by someone else’s sign, that person in turn would show his sign and someone else’s and so on, the person who got muddled with the signs would loose and had to have a sip of his drink. Let’s just say that we were all getting it wrong and it was hilarious. I loved it. I had not laughed so much in ages. I went to bed still with a smile. Most of them stayed a little while longer.



27th Breakfast included cereal and I had nothing else but 3 servings of cereal and some banana. I just could not eat any more toast or cake. I was happy. My day was spent leisurely in a lounger facing the sea. I started snorkeling with everyone but as it got too busy I decided to move to another part of the beach and 2 or 3 minutes after I enter the water I saw a huge reef shark, I was a bit disoriented but I knew I wasn’t very far out so I managed to swim fast to shore. That was all the excitement I could have in one day and so I spend the rest of the day in my chair alone. Daniele had gone on a sailing day, Jamie was with Tiff and Phil had gone to the mainland on an early boat, the Brazilians were transferred to another island. I enjoyed my book and dozed off for a little while until they sounded the drums at tea time. On my way to tea one of the Japanese elderly ask me over eagerly and asked me to sit with his wife. I was surprised but then I remembered that the same happened in Cambodia. I guess they were fascinated by my blond hair and blue eyes, which is kind of rare in their part of the world. At 5pm we boarded the yellow catamaran for the last time headed for the mainland. The adventure was over and again we met up with some of the others, like Stephanie and Emma, Astrid and another German lady from Kuata. 




 













On arrival at Nadi Bay Resort I had a luxurious hot water shower and headed for the restaurant to have mahimahi fish, the same I had eaten on arrival. It was gorgeous. This time I also had banana fritter… hummmm. After dinner I went to Smugglers Cove Resort to meet up with the others, we had some cocktails and exchanged some more funny stories from the travels.

28th after breakfast I moved to Horizons, Daniele and Jamie had gone and Stephanie was all by herself so I asked if I could have a bed in her dorm, then spent the day in the shade wondering what to do next. Finally managed to book a day trip to Castaway Island (where the film with Tom Hanks was filmed). And there is where I shall be tomorrow.

29.01.10
I don’t know how to really say this but I think Fiji gets better and better as days go by… Castaway island is really beautiful and I suppose they all are in their own way. Some for the beauty of the landscape, the beach, the reef, the food… all have something to rave about. However snorkeling at Castaway was exceptional, it was like swimming in a aquarium, I had not seen so many different fish swimming with me, under me, next to me… it was awesome. Again I saw sea cucumbers, star fish, and all sorts of big, medium and small fish in shallow waters that amazed me. I particularly liked ones that looked like they had a green maze decorated on their bodies, or the multi colored ones. I saw surf parrots, bicolour parrot fish, scissor tail fish, neon fish, humbugs, garfish, goldfish, flower fish, lolly fish, snake fish and silver sides. After a good half an hour snorkeling I walked to both sides of the resort to take pictures. Then it was time for my fabulous lunch. I had mahimahi fish again with salad and a second serving with roasted vegetables. I ordered a glass of wine and coughed up double the price I paid at my resort. I was grateful for the view and just so happy to be there.


 


















After lunch I soaked in the atmosphere in the shade because the midday sun is extremely hot and I dozed off a few times. Then went for another snorkel and swim and it was time to go back. What a shame.







30.01.10
I woke up early to take the 7.30 local bus to Nadi. A windowless bus arrived and I was pleased to sit in an almost comfortable bus. In Nadi I changed to the Pacific Liner which is a very old bus going to Suva, the capital. I was to stop along the road 2h into the trip at my next resort, the Beach House. I sat in the front and regretted immediately as soon as the bus took off. The heat coming from underneath my seat was too much so when we got to Sigatoga I changed to another seat. My stop for the Beach House came in after 2h of lovely country side and sea coastal roads and I was left in the middle of the road in front of the resort. I walked in to find an extremely peaceful resort waiting for me with unlimited internet access. I checked my emails and uploaded some photos to facebook and went to the beach in time for a swim in the 32 degree warm water. It was like swimming in a hot spring pool. I did Gi Quong in the evening and because I did not have tea in the afternoon I did not order my dinner and missed out. Luckily I was not hungry. I had 2 of my apples for dinner.

31.01.10
Today I woke up early and did yoga in the decking at the beach. How wonderful. I want to have a house with a deck or veranda just like that, either where I can see the sun rise or sunset so I can do my yoga outside and feel all the positive energy of a brand new day. I had my breakfast and went for a walk in the beach. Lunch was a milkshake so I could be hungry for dinner but because it’s so hot I just feel like eating fruit and milkshakes or smoothies. I called my children and did very little else, after all I am here to relax.




01.02.10
Again I woke up early and did my yoga and had breakfast but today no walk on the beach. 

Today was the day for a much needed massage and at 20 FJ Dls I could not say no. 

Camila the Brazilian girl I met in South Sea arrived yesterday and was leaving today so I came to Nadi with her at noon. Yesterday I got something in my eye and also needed to go to the chemist to get some drops for my eye. I managed to do all the work I needed on the internet but failed to find the time to buy my flights out of the Cook Islands. I hope they do not annoy me at immigration on entry.


Today is my last day on Fiji and I have to say I am glad I came. I had a different idea about Fiji. I imagined it modern and tourist oriented and found a poor island well organized for tourism as far as activities and tours around the islands go but their organization skills and administration of assets, like resorts and equipment, leaves a lot to be desired. 
 
I saw heaps of possibilities not taken just because the attitude of the locals is so blazé about it all. They are very laid back and do not understand or intend to learn about customer service relations, about management or about good service. It was wonderful don’t get me wrong but it could be so much more. The coast line is still very dirty, beaches at resorts included. Even if it is just coral and seaweed but it could be collected to a communal place leaving the main area of the beach in front of the resort clean for the guests to use.

I know they were hit by a cyclone recently but still this aspect is not a recent occurrence, even the town of Nadi does not seem that appealing. It’s a dark, plain, old town, with fashion that the rest of the world despises but sold with a smile that captivates.

Fijian people are extremely happy and kind but due to their attitude sometimes come across as useless, instead of just laid back. Everything runs on Fiji time, so everything is between 10 and 30 min late except for the tours, those are dead on time.

As far as resorts go I am very surprised to say that even though very basic the backpacker resorts I stayed were quite alright for the price and yes you do not need to be rich to do this trip, you just need to be adventurous, pick up your ‘small’ bag and go. Unfortunately this is not how pacific islands are portrayed in Europe. Of course there are 5* resorts but some also fail to advertise that they do not have a beach and the 100 or 200 guests end up spending their fijian holidays by the pool in one location seeing very little of the real Viti Levu (the main island).

I met people from many nationalities and walks of life, the majority being youngsters either on their year out before university or just after, so aged between 19 and 26. A few older people mingled with them, lone travellers like me. Often we would come together in wonderful conversations about round-the-world travels over a glass of wine and great fijian food. The most amazing thing about travelling alone is that we are never alone if we do not want to be alone, it is very easy and expected to talk to the person on the table next to you and even invite yourself to join them. They very much need the distraction as well. I found I am not alone in this quest of the world and many wonderful people share my vision of what living life is all about.

Tonight the film showing is ‘It’s complicated’ so I am off to the theatre room now.

Yassalei (farewell) my friends…

02.02.10, 3pm
Fiji sulked in rain for my departure and Auckland airport is freezing under the air conditioning… I long to land in Rarotonga (Cook Islands).

The flight wasn’t too bad 3h30m… what I am frantically trying to figure out is the time difference. In Fiji I was 13 hours ahead of England, in NZ I am 12 hours ahead of England and as soon as I land in the Cook islands I will be 10 hours behind England… therefore living the 2nd of February all over again… I can’t wait to see how I feel about that.


Rarotonga - Cook Islands

02.02.10


 
Kia Orana (meaning “may you live long”) is the greeting you receive upon arrival in the Cook Islands. I had no garland of flowers though… damn.


And no, it’s not a misprint I am living the 2nd of February all over again.

Left Fiji at 11am on the 2nd Feb, arrived in Auckland at 2.30pm and left at 6.30pm spending my 2nd of Feb travelling and then arrived in the Cook Islands at 1am still on the 2nd of Feb. How good is that? Talk about time travel… this is it.

Actually it reminds me the feeling I had in 2007 when I left England on the 2nd December arriving in Christchurch on the 4th Dec, missing the 3rd of December completely. I felt robbed. Now I am living the opposite and feel weird as if I had drank some sort of weird voodoo potion… lol

My couchsurfer was nowhere to be seen and so I went strait to the Aquarius. In Fiji, a German guy had mentioned this place and I thought that would be my best choice at such late arrival time. I had the whole dorm to myself. In the morning I was pleasantly surprised at the view. The restaurant area opens up to the deck and pool in front of the sea. How wonderful… it’s the most idyllic location even though there is no beach as such, just rocks, but the view is worth a 1000 beaches. 

I walked 50 metres and rented a car. The island is 45km long (some say 32Km, I won’t bother checking) and the road runs all the way around the island, making it impossible to get lost here. I toured the island in one hour… so I did it again just in case I missed a few things that I had failed to see the first time… lol … then I spent the rest of the day at Muri beach. The weather is warm but quite windy because there is a cyclone still cruising around, between here and Tahiti – cyclone Oli. This is the 2nd cyclone that went past here in the last 10 days making the weather a bit unstable. As I had the car I went to a dinner / show at the Rarotonga Resort. Apparently people pay NZ$600 a night to stay there… people do spend money for nothing. It doesn’t even have a nice beach…


03.02.10
I extended the car rental for another day and with that a new temporary driver’s licence. Yes here one has to buy a Cook Island driver’s licence (NZ$20) to drive a car or motorbike and some people may even have to do a test… how funny. Anyway the lady at the car rental was nice and issued me a second temporary driver’s licence for $2. Those who rent motorbikes have the choice to wear helmets. If they ride 40 miles per hour they do not need a helmet. If they want to ride at the highest speed allowed in the island (50 miles per hour - lol) then they need one… don’t you just love rules…!

I went around the island again (did I tell you they drive like in England?) and then took the road inland parallel to the coastal road. Ah ah … this is the Beverly Hills of the Cook Islands… lol …. Bigger and prettier houses adorn the hills in the middle of the island. I saw some amazing bungalows… even a house with a pool, and a 2 bed house to rent for $380 per week. Shame I did not know that when I arrived.

Anyway I am quite pleased with my place. I called on another Cs, who could not host me but told me of a place owned privately. Maria owns the art gallery in Muri Beach and rents a little unit at the back of her garden. I was delighted when I saw it. (will post pics soon). It’s like a princess’ room. It has a mini fridge, kettle and toaster and she even left fruits (bananas, passion fruit and mangoes) from her own garden for me to eat. She also left me water and milk and 2 little boxes of cereal, how sweet! In front of the room stretches a decking with 2 sofas and a little table, in the corner a cooker and another table. What more could I ask for $25 a night? Nothing, absolutely nothing!!!!



Marcus, the Cs who recommended this place, came over in the afternoon to make sure I had found it alright. We had a brief chat about Aitutaki (a wonderful paradisiacal island 220km north of here) and Tahiti and then he left with a promise that he would look up some promotions on Air Rarotonga, the company he works for. He also gave me some tips on where to stay, both in Aitutaki and Tahiti where he had been recently with his girlfriend.



04.02.10
I woke up to another windy but glorious day and headed to the Aquarius to check my emails. Internet here is sold at $10 or $15 per 15Mb so if I upload or download something I loose my money, but it’s ok just to read emails. I took the car back and took the bus back to my pad, then made the extra effort to walk 20 metres and hit the beach… lol

At lunch time I headed for Miró’s for lunch. I had had breakfast there yesterday or the day before and knew the food was good. What I find here is that food is quite expensive. Anyway I am sure I will be fine. I shall eat more fruit as seen that it’s on the house literally…

Laying down in the sofa and writing these words makes me feel very happy. Again I am where I want to be and I think that ‘to just ‘be’ is the best gift you can give yourself’.

Reading about Aitutaki makes me want to go. Who I really want to see is the old lady featured in an article in the free magazine Escape I am reading who said that she does not like to be away from Aitutaki, and when asked if she goes to Rarotonga often she replies… ‘Rarotonga? Too busy!’ I have to laugh out loud, busy is not a word in this islands’ vocabulary. Impossible to be quieter, as there is not much to do anyway. I would also love to be dropped off at a Motu for the night. A Motu is a deserted island, and there are several around the 15x12km blue water lagoon in Aitutaki, used by tours to take tourists for a sunset romantic meal or lunch BBQ. And like D.H. Lawrence said… ‘the human soul needs beauty more than bread.’ That is why I want to feast on the best that this wonderful world has to offer,

Tomorrow I will call the travel agency again to see if there is availability for Aitutaki. I called today and left my details.

Tonight I took the clockwise bus and went to the cinema. Oh! I had not yet mentioned the clockwise and anti-clockwise bus? … lol … well like I said there is only one road so one bus goes in one direction (clockwise) and the other in the opposite direction (anti-clockwise)… digest that and you will understand how small this island is. Anyway I went to see the film Avatar and still cannot understand the headlines a few weeks after the film came out saying that people were committing suicide because they could not live like Avatars… the computerized effects were great and I think Jack Sully is a foolish romantic, lol. Because the film had an intermission I just missed the 10pm bus, luckily a lady asked me where I was going and she gave me a lift. She is Russian, came on holiday 9 years ago and never left. She is a doctor and all the way home we talked about Osho. Don’t ask me why.

However the more I think about the more the idea of going to an ashram in India appeals to me. I have met more people on this holiday than in previous holidays and really of all ages, and at times I was amazed at how people go through life without a plan, a path or even a dream.

05.02.10
My soul is full to the brim. How will I top up this feeling?

I am where I want to be, I am doing what I want and on top of that I am enjoying being able to just be, without wants, desires, worries… I am so fully happy I could easily explode if someone were to hug me right now.

The most incredible things find their way to my mind. I was at the beach this morning, more or less on the south of the island, and I was thinking that there is absolutely nothing after my horizon, for miles and miles and miles there is only the Pacific Ocean and eventually many miles away there is Antarctica. Wow!!!


Now there is a thought to digest over the next hour here in the sun having a coffee at this delightful coffee shop cum villas called Little Polynesian Café... what an infinity pool, what blue colour. I am loving the south pacific. Just hope Tahiti does not disappoint.


I had a lovely dinner at Sails, the sailing club of the island. The fish here is just unbelievably delicious, mine was served on a bed of mash potato and roasted vegetables.

06.02.10
It’s market day today, so I shall get myself there soon.

The market was colourful and vibrating with sound and smells. There were food stalls, clothes, crafts, cakes, smoothies and juices, it was great. After a few minutes walking I ate Mongolian chicken of all choices on the menu and bought some bagels with pumpkin hommus for later. She gave me a free bagel with blackberry that turned out to be very rubbery… how disappointing when I had my tea ready…

I took the clockwise bus and arrived home just in time to head off on a trekking with Frank from Frankfurt. Dear me I have met more Germans on this holiday than during the whole of my life, which was only my lovely friend Silke and her husband.  Is there anyone left behind in Germany I wonder.



It was hard, very demanding and very exciting at the same time. You can physically see you are going up the mountain as most of the track is at 45 degrees. Having done a couple of walks in Singapore and New Zealand I thought I would have no problem doing a one hour walk to the top… little did I know it was a almost vertical climb for most of the way. After finishing it I felt awesome. I felt proud of myself for having done it and asked myself if I would have done it alone. Maybe not, I would have turned back half way afraid of injuring myself but having someone there encouraged and motivated me and once more I came to the conclusion that I prefer to do certain things with a group of people, like snorkelling and trekking. I feel a bit more secure in a group. If I had fallen from one of those steep climbs I would have been in deep trouble as we saw no one else on the track.

So at 7pm I was ready to sleep… understandably.

07.02.10
Still not sure what to do… my internet ended today Sunday, of all days, when everything is closed. However I am not allowed to worry, especially in paradise, so I went snorkelling. I took the clockwise bus to another beach and made sure I kept track of time as the bus runs 8am until midday and then from 2 to 4pm. Great life if you are a Sunday bus driver. I guess there are not many people taking the bus on Sundays. Here Sunday is family day and church day, a time to be with the family and forget about work. I had a milkshake and an apple pie with ice cream at the (Swedish) Green Café. Nice, very nice.



No internet today and it’s a bummer because I really wanted to be looking at the weather prognostics and also checking flights to be able to make a decision tomorrow. Having said that it was a good exercise for me to be without something I need/want and be able to remain calm and not freak out. Tomorrow is another day.

Well Maria, my landlady, she never had internet, figure that, living your life without internet. Her computer broke down a couple of months ago (digest that too) and she was telling me how she really needs to get a new one but her voice was saying yeh one of these days, no hurry… That’s another deep thought for today. No net and no computer. If I keep having these deep thoughts every day I will become a sage before I am 50.

So against my will, that it stays recorded here I am going to work a bit. I have been really naughty and done basically no work these last 2 months. Wonderful!!!!

08.02.10
I woke up early as always and miss doing my yoga. I need to go on a retreat soon. Maybe I should have gone to Goa instead of here… well there is always a next time.

I booked my return ticket from Tahiti and went to town and paid my departure tax, NZ$55 wow!!! I am becoming penniless in paradise…

Some things are very expensive in the Cooks and I can understand how a holiday here can end up costing an arm and a leg if one is not careful. I am lucky that my pound is NZ$2 but even so there are things I am not buying.

I had coffee and a chat with Maria when I got back and learned that there is a cyclone on its way here, Cyclone Pat. Maybe it’s a good idea to leave tomorrow after all. I can’t wait to see what the fuss is all about. I have been told that Papeete is not a nice place to stay longer than necessary so I am planning to go straight to Morea either by plane or by ferry, whichever is available. Air Morea has some cheap flights and I shall try those before heading for the harbour. I have been told that the fare to town is exorbitant so I shall do my outmost not to get into a taxi. Apparently there are flights to Morea from 26 euros and a flat rate by taxi from the airport to town is 20 euros… amazing!

09.02.10
It’s official I am dodging cyclones in the south pacific… lol ….

Last week there was cyclone Oli going through Tahiti and I considered not going to Tahiti but then it would be as expensive to buy return tickets to Auckland or Sydney at such short notice and by this week I was sure there would be no more cyclone threats, after all how many cyclones can you have in a month? Well last night I heard that cyclone Pat is on its way to Rarotonga… so I am glad I kept my initial plan and fly out to Tahiti today… we’ll see what this adventure brings on its last days…

One good thing about one way flights is that you can change your mind at any time but it’s also time consuming trying to find the right bargain at short notice so the best is really to plan a couple of weeks ahead only.

The day woke up grey and maybe the cyclone will arrive tomorrow not Thursday. I hope it dies out on its way like the last one. I do not think it’s nice to feel the gale force winds of a cyclone. I tremble just with the normal thunderstorms in England where houses are built to reasonably good standards, now here the majority of homes are very flimsy and I cannot believe they build them like this knowing they are on a path for cyclones and hurricanes. Anyway as I am discovering, every paradise also has its flaws. 









Tahiti

The flight to Tahiti took only 2h45m and arriving at Papeete coming from Raro was like arriving in Hanoi after being in Laos. Papeete was busy and the smell of petrol inundated my senses. I checked the price for the flights and although not expensive (44Eur) I though I preferred to experience the real Papeete and save a bit in the process, because in fact my reserves are getting lower and lower as departure day looms.

So I took the bus Eur1, and the ferry to Morea (30 min) - Eur10.50. Happy with my decision I waited for the ferry and then boarded a large vessel headed for yet another slice of paradise. Julia, my CS host in Morea, recognized me immediately, on the contrary I am hopeless, I have a hard time recognizing people. Julia’s house sits up a hill and has a fantastic view of Rotui mountain and Cooks Bay. This is the dream house of every artist. We stopped at the supermarket so I could get something to eat at breakfast and Julia is now cooking dinner. I am sure tomorrow I will be dying and going to heaven with the sun rising right in front of us.

10.02.10
My ‘couch’ lays just by the door facing the terrace, mountain and bay… wow! What a morning view! It’s just fantastic! 




 














Julia dropped me at the beach on her way to work, she is a speech therapist and has been living here 3 years. The public beach I went to is situated just past the Hilton, between Cooks Bay and Opunohu Bay, and the water is as glorious as any picture advertises in magazines. The sea is crystal clear with different shades of blue, just fantastic. I am told by Julia that I can hitchhike every where so that is what I did after I had an hour or so of beach and after a lovely Panini and pineapple juice. I tried going in the direction of Point Hauru without success, not many cars going that way, so I went the other way to Temae beach, another public beach with glorious warm crystal clear water.

I return home in the afternoon extremely happy for being able to hitchhike after so many years. Apparently here is normal for even the locals to do so and people are so friendly it’s unbelievable.

This evening I was invited to go for a cocktail at the Hilton with Julia and her best friend. It was a chance to see what all the fuss is about. Well if I had not been to the Maldives I probably would have been impressed by the resort but the water bungalows are no novelty to me and so it was just another resort I visited. One in which despite the price you pay for a non alcoholic cocktail (12 euros) serves you fruit juice from a packet not even a freshly squeezed little pineapple… very sad, eih? Additionally people pay a fortune to stay there…



Oh well not all that shines is gold, and it’s very true.

When we came home Julia prepared sashimi, with some fresh tuna, now I have to apologise to my friend Andreia for not eating with her but this fish was cut very, very fine and with a lovely sauce and rice… so I tried it and I liked it. I guess the thick pieces I saw being served in Sydney did not appeal to me as much. Now I know what it is and may even have it again…. next year…. lol….

11.02.10
Today I stayed home, Julia left me her computer and I accessed the internet, sent some emails and booked another flight. One more flight and I will be half way home…

I shall take it easy today and maybe go up for a walk to the Belvedere with Julia tomorrow as I think she said she worked only half day… will see.

Even though I can hitchhike anywhere I cannot afford the luxury… lol… well if I told you things were expensive in the Cook Islands well here they are exorbitant. In fact there is nothing here that costs less than 10 euros. I mean there are but that’s maybe a hair clip Eur5 or a bottle of shampoo Eur4.85.

I went 2 times to the supermarket, bought nothing and each time I spent Eur20… unbelievable! I kid you not, I bought a milk, cornflakes, bottle of water and 4 yogurts and it came to Eur19. on another occasion I got a shampoo, shower gel, Mikado, 4 courgets and goats cheese, the latter two because Julia had mentioned she needed some and I paid Eur20.50. However I find that the prices are not logically priced, if you know what I mean. The ½ ferry journey was Eur10.50 and a fridge magnet Eur6 (yes that story will be told as the most expensive fridge magnet in the whole wide world).


12.02.10
No I did not go trekking with Julia, in fact I did something much better. Julia suggested to Tehaamana, her partner, that he could take me on a friend’s boat to the lagoon to swim with the rays (and sharks). Having had a great first experience with the sharks in Fiji, I would never think of saying no. The boat trip lasted maybe 15-20 min and there were only two small boats like ours there. The tourist filled boat would arrive later I was told by Tehaamana. He jumped in the water with a bit of fish and the rays were all over him. I took a picture and then jumped in as well. I felt like a child touching new textures, feeling new emotions and above all feeling very, very privileged, for being there, for being part of this moment. The rays feel velvety and they do not have teeth so when they jump on people to get some food the sensation their mouth leaves is like a rubbery aspiration, if you can get the idea.


Because Tehaamana had so much fish he threw some in the deep end nearby and what was 3 sharks initially roaming to see what was going on became 20 good size sharks fighting for their lunch… it was just amazing!!! No other words can describe it, fantastic and wonderful at the same time.

The rays did not leave us and it was hard to leave, I was smitten…

Then we stopped at the nearby Motu, a deserted little island. This particular one is not in use now but some time in the past was used by nudists. The tours use another Motu nearby which has more space for picnics and snorkelling.

Tonight we are going to a salsa lesson.

13.02.10
Salsa was fun, maybe I should go for lessons in England. My friend Nara will be pleased she always invites me. Tonight there is a get together at one of the girls of the group and so there is more Salsa tonight. Not much choice in Morea, I regret to say. What I heard of is that apart from salsa there is Hawaiian and Tahitian dances, judo, the gym, happy hours at the resorts and virtually nothing else.

Today we went on our little trekking, not as hard as the one in the Cook islands. We drove the pineapple route, like Julia calls it, because it has lots of pineapple plantations. It was curious to see how they sprout of the earth in really ugly prickly plants. During our trekking I learned about the marae, the Polynesian temples or ceremonial sites, which were part of the community. There were always several ones, used as burials, for sacrifices and also for women to give birth. Legend says the stones that make the marea are sacred because they hold the soul of their ancestors. Because they are sacred if people walk on them it brings them bad luck.

Chickens / cockerels in this region, Paopao and D’Opunohu valleys, are sacred too. Rotui mountain lays majestically in front of the valley and legend says Taroa, a God from Raiatea, a nearby island, wishing to have a mountain on his island demanded permission from other Gods to come to Morea and steal one mountain. He was allowed but on the condition that he’d go at night and be back before sunrise. He arrived and without loosing any time he attached Rotui to his boat and started sailing away pulling the mountain with him. The cockerels seeing the mountain being stolen started to sing and Taroa thinking it was almost daylight left the mountain behind and returned to his island. The cockerels saved the mountain and that is also the reason why it lays as it stands in between Cooks and D’Opunohu Bays.

Now there is no legend as to why there are so many mosquitoes and minuscule see-through flies but that they are annoying that is a fact. As I said before even paradise has its flaws and here it’s the mosquitoes. Their bites are really itchy and you need to over yourself in whacky repellent all the time not just in the evenings.

15.02.10
Yesterday me, Julia and Miriam (Julia’s friend) went to a salsa party at a friend of hers. It was great, house by the sea, huge veranda, big table full of pizza… pizza??? Yes! With so many lovely food around the world they all brought pizza. Julia baked some savoury muffins and I mainly ate those and some brie with crackers. We had lunch at the beach, at a local restaurant she loves and I had my favourite fish Mahi Mahi and she had the king prawns al’olio…. Delicious… anyway back to the pizza’s… while they danced sweated and ate pizza I observed and repeated my story to everyone, who I am, where I’ve been, etc… made time pass. I did dance a couple of times, one with a professional dancer/teacher from the mainland and another with another guy. I did pretty well considering. So on my return to England I shall go down to Babylon lounge on Fridays for some more.

Julia made her favourite toasts with goats’ cheese for lunch and then took me to the ferry. I really like couchsurfing, she was a delightful host. She is very calm, generous and happy, which made my stay very comfortable. It is indeed a fact that ‘there are no strangers just friends you have not met yet’… not sure who said it or wrote it but I agree. She has become a friend and I really hope I can repay the favour if she ever comes to England.

I hitchhiked to the airport, having realised that everything in Papeete is closed on Sunday.  

I was rehearsing how to say NO should a male Tahitian stopped alone and offered me a lift when a young couple stopped, ufff… I was lucky. At the rent a car I was given a Peugeot 107, white of all colours, and I was pleased to drive ‘my car’ (C1…well… same same but different).

As soon as I could I headed south towards Tahiti Iti, the small island. One hour later, already at Tavarea or Tevarao, failing to see any hostels or pension or whatsoever I decided to stop at a restaurant at the same time the sky opened in a bout of rain… I went in with a brave face and my initial reaction was Oh my God! Guys playing pool, girls at the bar… but I was mistaken. I asked one of the ladies at the bar where could I find a place to stay the night and she said, oh la la !! (in perfect French, of course) and went on to say if you did not book now it’s too late (hunn? I looked at my watch 7.30pm, the sun had just set…) she opened the phonebook called a few places and nothing… I gulped. Oh well, I said, I’ll sleep in the car in Teahupoo. Oh no no no (she said again in her perfect French) ‘my mother has a house nearby that she never uses, you can stay there the night if you don’t mind staying in a simple house’. I thanked her endless times on the way there, her mother came with me and her sister followed in another car. I could hear the sea and knew we were close, how close I saw the next day. Anyhow the room was perfect with ensuite bathroom, obviously simple. She (I feel awful but I forgot her name in all commotion) explained that since the cyclone the house had been closed off and she was living with one of her daughters, she showed me some pictures of her late husband and got the coffee machine ready for me, told me to eat the yogurts in the fridge and be at home. I was lost for words. Apparently her father before her used to host passing tourists who were lost or with no place to stay and so she and all her family for that matter had follow suit.


 















I woke up with the sun peeping through the windows and doors at 6.30am, I jumped up off bed and went out of the room into a lounge with two sliding doors to a decking terrace over the water, literally over clear aqua blue water, a bit dirty with trees and debris from the cyclone, but nonetheless a perfect setting for a house. I was gobsmacked. I am indeed a lucky woman. Well I reckon it’s not luck. I reckon we receive in life what we give and I am being blessed with retributions for all the goodness in my heart. I made a coffee, ate a yogurt with some muesli I have been carrying around forever and sat outside basking in the perfect sun rising. I left a message thanking her again for her generosity together with my name and contact offering to welcome her one day in my house. I left with a smile and decided to see what I thought was one side of the small island before returning and going around the other side to Teahupoo. For your information both sides of the small island have roads up to Km 15 or 16 and the rest of the island, the point which joins the 2 is only accessible by boat. I was driving for ½ hour when I realised I was going back up on the west side of the big island, silly me I though and stopped. And who stops behind me? The lady from the night before, with her daughter, going up to Papeete themselves. What a coincidence. She told me what I had figured out myself, I told her I knew and was going back, and before I could thank her yet again, she said ‘wait…’ and she took off a large pearl she had on her necklace and gave it to me ‘to keep you safe until you go home she said’. I was speechless. I could only say ‘maururu’ (thank you).

I drove back still holding the pearl in my hand. I stopped a bit further along and put it on a necklace. We all need good guarding angels. I felt emotional as I normally do in situations that require so. Because of all the lost time going the wrong way I ended up arriving at Teahupoo 10min after the water taxi left for the surf break with other people… I asked around, went to 2 places to try my luck and came back to the little marina and waited. A large grey cloud brought some rain and 1 hour later the boat arrived. I asked him if was going again and he said maybe in 15min when the rain clears. I waited. The weather cleared and we left. There were a few surfers and the waves were quite small, about 1.5 to 2 metres but I liked the sensation of sitting on top a wave. Because of its location just around the passage the waves come from 2 directions and some times go in a curved direction not straight. Waiting for the surfers (the taxi driver gave them a ride) I discovered that 1 of them was Brazilian… small world. His name was Cesar and he had been living in Teahupoo for almost a year.

The surfers left the boat near the beach and the water taxi took me back to the marina (boasting as many as 4 boats… lol). I drove back towards Papeete riding the same road as before and stopping at the Faiaa’fare waterfalls. There are 3 tall waterfalls at this site, Vaimahuta, Haamaremare Rahi and Haamaremare Iti. Unfortunately it is not possible to swim because there is a risk of stones falling and also the water is quite brown due to the fact that the water runs through mud and trees before climbing down the rocks.



My day complete I drove around Papeete in plenty of time to find a hostel and take the car back before 7pm. I drove a few times in circles and the first place I stopped at the name appealed to me. Hostel Teamo. In Italian Ti amo means I love you. I though it was sweet. The price was sweet to and I took a shower before taking the car back. Realising the Truck (local bus) wasn’t coming after waiting 10 min I decided to hitchhike once again. A lady and her nephew stopped and I was pleased. She dropped her nephew off and took me downtown to the harbour. On the way she explained she had just came back from NZ where she studied Tourism and was intending on opening a business ‘tours with a difference’ (not the real name) where she intends to incorporate what Tahiti has to offer in terms of cuisine, monuments, landscapes, history, etc. I though it was a great idea. We exchanged contacts.

So my last night on the island translates as follows: generosity is a gift, not a service; kindness is a trait of the meek; giving does not ask in return; smile from your heart; nature is to be observed and cherished, it won’t last long otherwise.

I have been blessed by the people I met on this journey and will cherish these moments forever. I wish everyone I met remembers me with tenderness.

Nana… (goodbye) from Tahiti


Cook Islands

16.02.10
On my plane back to the Cook Islands I wonder what more will happen on my last 2 weeks of this adventure.

Rarotonga received me yet again with fantastic sunshine. I learned that cyclone Pat had hit Aitutaki really bad but not Raro…I was pleased. My good thoughts had helped I was sure. I stoped in town to eat something and pay my departure tax, yet again, yes another NZ$55 for a few hours in the island. Then I took the bus to Maria’s. she wasn’t in, the house was still boarded up and her partner came around and told me to make myself comfortable at the unit. I left my luggage there and headed for the beach. The tide was out and the lagoon looked smaller. There was something else that was different, the wind, there was no wind today. I stayed mainly in the water as it was the best place to be.

Close to 6pm I went in and took a shower, went off to buy a Panini, made a tea and Maria arrived. She had been with her family and we chatted for a while until it was time for her to make dinner. I joined her afterwards for coffee until it was time to board the clockwise bus for the last time. I arrived at the airport and the lights were out. I sat down alone in the dark, I checked flights and read/deleted emails, called my mum and soon it was 2am, the 17th, time to do my check in.

Auckland

17.02.10
Well today is the day I will not see… by the time I get to Auckland it will be 7am on the 18th. I hate this part… loosing a day like that is not nice… lol

18.02.10
So today is waiting day… my flight to Sydney does not leave until 4pm so I have the whole day to surf the net. Nothing else to do in Auckland as I saw it all before.

Looking for ways to go from Singapore to Terengganu I came across all other possibilities Hong Kong, Macau, Borneo, and then I though of Phuket. Someone mentioned Phi Phi islands to me and how it was wonderful and I remembered that when I went to Thailand I had not been to Phi Phi because the tsunami had hit the year before I thought it may be still being rebuilt. To go to Terengganu I need to go first to KL, 6h by train or 1h flying, then get on a bus… 6h by bus or about 1h flying. This means travelling for another 1 or 2 days. Low coast airlines fly from Singapore to Phuket and it only takes an hour. I was tempted by the second but did not book. 

Sydney
 
Got to Sydney tired. At the airport phoned a few backpackers before I got lucky and ended up at Westend backpackers. Ok for 1 night, much better than the one in Perth. I stayed in a girls only dorm with 4 beds but we were only 2 girls.

I did my laundry, my clothes really needed a good wash and went to bed.

19.02.10
As soon as I finished breakfast at 9am I decided to check out and go to my friend’s house to get my bag. I headed for Circular Quay having no problems moving within this city that so much captivates me. However I realised pretty soon that I was in a city, I found myself walking just slightly faster, paying a lot more attention to my surroundings, after all there are more buses here than just a clockwise and anti clockwise… lol … The journey took less than an hour and I managed to have a coffee with her before leaving her with a promise that we will see each other again very soon, maybe as soon as Christmas. That would be nice.

The journey back to the airport was uneventful but not having a ticket out of Singapore proved to be a problem so I had to go on the internet and book myself a flight… decisions, decisions, and Phuket just sounded so much nicer than another day travelling pulling my suitcase. So I shall sleep at the airport in Singapore, much better than spending a night in town which I also know already. This means that Phuket is going to be my last stop. A very improvised, impulsive, last minute decision ‘last stop’ before heading to freezing England…

Luckily Singapore airport has free wi-fi and I can spend the whole night if I need to looking for a place to stay in Phuket.


20.02.10
It’s 4am and I am still going, free internet is addictive. I managed to email everyone, call my children and sort out some students.

The coffee shop where I spend the night was full of students researching for their mid year exams. I thought it was cool. They come to the airport which has free internet and hang out together studying together. 



Phuket

It’s 11am and I am finally in Phuket at my guesthouse. I gave up on searching more and settled for double the price I intended to pay but I want to go to the beach, not spend the rest of the day looking for a cheap room. I opted for Kata Beach because I thought it was quieter but it also meant the guesthouses are few in between the biggest hotels.

10pm – I am dead and hitting the sack… I went to Kata beach, took a tuk tuk to the other side of the beach, went fishing for some white snapper and asked the restaurant lady to grill it for me… lol … well almost, fishermen sell the fish at the market and the restaurants in front just cook it for you, wonderful. On the way back I went to the market and saw all the things I do not need and will not buy, well maybe just one thing for my daughter.

21.02.10
Took the tuk tuk to Nai Thon Beach but did not realise how far it was so by the time I got there it was almost time to come back because I had booked myself on the boat to Phi Phi island at 1.30pm. Oh well it was a good drive, through Karon Beach, Patong Beach and Surin Beach.

Phi Phi is lovely, bigger than I thought and full of life. Tourists are bombarded with offers of hotels and resorts but having learned about it I swam through them and headed into the centre of Ton Sai. I asked left and right for a place and then settled for a not so expensive guesthouse for the night. The beach is gorgeous on Ton Sai side but full of boats arriving and departing, shame… so at dinner I looked at the lovely detailed map and decided that tomorrow I shall go on a trek to the other side.




Tonight I wondered about after an early dinner and went to see some Muay Thai at the Reggae Bar. They were advertising free drinks for volunteers and I wish I had a friend with me so I could have a go in a proper ring, see if I still had it in me since my teenage days when I did some kick boxing.

22.02.10
I woke up bright and early and headed to D’s Books for breakfast. After my muesli, fruit and yogurt fix I headed to the viewpoint… 321 steps up to the 1st viewpoint and I stopped tired but amazed at the view. There are some bungalows there for 700 bahts per night the same as I was paying but it meant 321 steps up and down every time I needed to go to the beach or to eat. Oh well…

It took courage but I continued to viewpoint number 2 for an even better view of both Ton Sai and Loh Dalun Bays. I asked how long was the walk to the beach and the lady said 10 – 15 min… nice I thought… well in 10 min I got to a very, very basic resort in the middle of nowhere and asked again, 15 – 20 min this time… lol… anyway the track was well signposted so I decided to continue and oh it was worth it. I only walked to Runtree Beach but the trek goes further. I hit the warm water and just floated there for ages. There was no one when I got there and it was wonderful. Around midday the boats started to arrive and other people who trekked there and the beach filled up a bit but it was still ok. I had lunch at the bar on the beach, and marvelled at the thought of my travels over the last 3 months.

I met incredible people, I sampled great food, I managed to yet again be where I wanted to be and do what I wanted to do, and that was the greatest present I could give myself.

23.02.10
Today I booked myself on a half day tour of Phi Phi Lei, I wanted to see what the fuss is all about. Oh dear… Monkey Bay is tiny and full of rubbish, not only banana skins but bottles and cans… shame… and famous Maya Bay (‘The Beach’) became an infamous place because of the swarms of people landing there every hour. Again a very nice beach, shame about the boats and crowds… so the trick in Thailand is getting on a boat and heading for one of the deserted little beaches scattered around the island. 









24.02.10
Last day on the island I went to the beach quite early and had breakfast later. My boat left for Phuket at 2pm and I slept all the way…lol…



Soon it was time to head for the airport and in no time I arrived in Singapore yet again.

Kuala Lumpur

25.02.10
In a few hours I will be flying to KL and tomorrow night I will be home. Scary thought. I miss my friends and I realise I have to go back to work but I just do not want to… lol… however I shall exercise my willpower and will set my mind to return with a smile and be grateful that I had this experience, that I have a job to come back to and that I have friends that wait for my sangria… lol.

So last thoughts about this trip before I send you these last words…

Well once more I realised how powerful our own mind is, how limitless the opportunities we have and somehow how little we manage to grasp of life. I noticed how I changed over the last few years and especially over these last months. Life has rewarded me with so many wonderful special moments and I will treasure them forever. It is true that when you dedicate yourself to transform your inner world your life quickly shifts from the ordinary onto the realm of the extraordinary. I felt it on this holiday, from strangers who gave me selflessly to friends who held my hand in spirit. I am grateful for both.

Another thing I am glad I did in past years is live with less, not feel the need to accumulate has allowed me to be completely happy with what I have. I feel completed fulfilled, even if that meant 4 dresses in a suitcase. Indeed what more could I ask for? I was healthy throughout my holiday, I slept well, ate glorious foods and was able to wake up every day to a glorious sunny morning. I was blessed every day and grateful, extremely grateful.

On insight this is just one more amazing thing I’ve done amongst the hundred other things I’ve done. However every time I return I feel different. I am different. I don’t think the same, every journey is a spiritual journey, solitude or aloneness brings an awakening that only those who walk the path experience and at times I do not feel that I am in the world but instead that the world is in me. Maybe because I am living so much every moment I do not pay so much attention to what happened before or what I have to do in the future. I am concentrating on what’s important, and that is simply ‘now’. To just ‘be’ in the moment. See the forest for trees, smell the roses, give my children some time to talk and be there for them and for my friends.

I realised that I am on a journey for lifelong happiness and I do not want to get out of this ride. I want to share this magic and I want to feel it every day. I want to spread it as glitter over everyone I meet and I want to embrace what life has in store for me.

I hope you get inspired to follow your dreams too and I hope one day I will be reading your wonderful experiences… for now it’s time to go. Thank you for being with me on this journey, thank you for reading and above all thank you for being my friends.

until my next adventure...

xx H xx